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Day 2

 Day 1 went over fine. I felt fun a perky. A bit naughty and pupish. I had the desire to just be naked and wear my collar and cage but sadly other folks around made it not so. Today will be a test not for me mentally or physically. Well maybe physically since I am doing an 8 hour drive in the cage. I have done this and have been fine, and I have done this and th cage had to come off due to some bad chaffing under the ball sack and pinching. But I have my key with me to take it off it need be. Don’t need to get injured while playing or the cage comes off longer to heal. Now why you may ask would I subject myself to a year in the cage. Well I like the way it feels. I love the energy and naughty feelings it gives me. I feel the need and want to have things in my ass. I feel like I become a better partner to my wife now mistress. I also feel more femmy and pretty with it on. So we shall see how today goes .

A year in chastity day 1

 I am starting this blog on the first day of the new year. And I’m excited and thrilled to start this journey and document it. I want to do a full year in chastity. Last October, I did Locktober for first time and did complete it.  But I am doing this in a practical way that will allow me to actually accomplish this. First a few rules. My wife/mistress is my keyholder and can unlock me and use my cock when she sees fit. Other wise I’ll be locked up and can’t orgasm unless she says so.  I will take my cage off at night so I can sleep and put it back on in morning. As well as showers for hygiene. Now right now I have a hard black plastic cage which does well but I have gotten pitched and rubbed (on underside) so should any injury happen I will be out of cage until healed. In February I plan on getting a new better cage. One that will be better constructed so I don’t have to worry about being pinched or rubbed wrong. I also want to get a flat one as well.  So you might ...

Me

 For those who will be reading this. You can refer to me as Owen, Ren, or Dobie. I turned 40 this past year. (Now 41 since picking up on this blog) I came out as genderfluid. And I am bi sexual. I am a furry and a furry artist. I do 3d renderings dealing with kinks such as BDSM, Latex, wet and messy play, and few other things.  So about the names.. Owen is my bear fursona's name. I made him as a way to be closer to what I look like in RL.  A pudgy bear with purple hair, nose septum ring, xnipple rings and wears a collar around his neck. Granted I don't have purple hair, would be nice to. Nor the nipple or nose rings. More on that later. I would consider myself in the bear cub category. I'm short, a little pudgy, but not husky or hairy. He is gender fluid. When I'm feeling more femmy I can be trans, full woman, or anything in between.  Ren is my main fursona, gender fluid at times sometimes with a dad bod but mostly a herm with mom bod. Can be seen in black and white ...

Preface

 This is a blog that will be nsfw. I will discuss things that are on my mind of adult nature. Be it gender, sexuality, fetish, kink, fantasy vs reality ect. I just wanted a place to put my thoughts down as I start this journey. I go by Owen, Ren, or Dobie. I’ll post about myself in the next post. Look forward to this journey. I hope you will join me for it .